How would you define trust?
Go on, jot it down, give it a quick think.
A quick Google search provided this definition: “Firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something.”
Now that fucking lands.
But let's be honest here. Because in this space, we keep it raw, real, and messy: In most relationships, trust isn’t firm.
We give ourselves some wiggle room.
We add on…conditions.
I’m guilty of this. And if you think you’re not…well then you're in denial and you should probably throw that right into the fucking fire.
I’m all for questioning, I am passionately curious myself. Questioning everything is my nature.
Here’s the thing I’m learning/remembering/experiencing:
In soul geometry love, trust is the definition.
For those in my soul geometry (an old term for this would be soul family, but that’s a whole other post…hummm…better get on that) the soul love is so deep it births pure trust.
I do not need to know why. I do not need to know how. If they ask me to do something, I just act.
“But Joy, what if they’re wrong? What if they are lying to you? What if…what if…what if…??”
Who the fuck cares? We’ll learn the lesson together.
It’s an all-in thing, see.
It will all come into light? We’ll face it. We’ll fucking burn it. And we’ll move on.
Because I don’t need them to be convinced. I let our resonance speak.
In truth, that’s what I trust, not the person, but the resonance we’ve built.
It’s also holding space for them when the trust is still forming. It’s not about blind faith. It’s about knowing when to listen deeper than doubt.
“But Joy, you want us to leap without a full plan, how will we know where we land?”
Well…because I just do. (Horrible answer, I agree. Logical minds cringe.)
But here’s my answer anyway:
I trust the field.
I trust the leap.
I trust everyone to move at their own pace.
I trust the resonance….and resonance?
It always finds a way.
If someone steps away, another person takes their place. Because what’s meant to be built…will be built.
If you have resonance with a person or a group, you eventually have to decide:
Are you ready to live at the level of trust that resonance requires?
For some, it’s easy at first. Small asks. Tiny leaps.
But when the threshold becomes life-changing, it’s okay to pause. To breathe. To check if your soul is really ready.
Soul love is always ready to hold space, but energy isn’t stagnant. Movement is inevitable.
The question is:
Will you flow with it or jump out of the stream altogether?
I bring THE plan.
Trust isn’t just surrender, it’s sacred alignment.
It isn’t about leaping when asked, or acting without a full body yes.
Trust rooted in love still honors discernment.
Sometimes, we confuse resonance with obligation.
But real trust doesn't demand. It invites.
And when someone says "no" from their truth, love holds that too.
Trust doesn't mean ignoring the whisper in your gut.
It means listening deeper, especially when the field feels tangled.
We’re all remembering. No judgment, just clarity.